Monday, July 03, 2006

July 2006 Discussion

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  1. LIFE’S LESSONS

    Word has come that the Connecticut Interscholastic Athletic Conference has passed a rule that will suspend a high school coach if his team wins by more than 50 points. Evidently this is applicable to any major sport.

    The purpose is to protect the egos of student athletes and limit their chances of suffering emotional stress. It’s a “feel-good” rule for our modern society to protect the teenagers’ supposedly “fragile” psyches. It also penalizes those very few coaches who might be tempted to run up the score.

    Mercy rules have their place. It’s silly to keep score in toddler T-ball or in some pick up games or even some supervised games when kids are just learning a sport.

    But losing by a big score for older kids can be a learning experience. Way back in 1916, the Georgia Tech football team beat little Cumberland University by the score of 220-0. The Bulldogs were coached by a John Heisman.

    He went on to have a trophy named after him, and the losing team (which consisted largely of fraternity boys who were hastily recruited for the game) went on to successful careers in government, law, and literature. No one seemed to suffer any irreparable damage.

    Closer to home, our Marcus Eagles got beat by Kingsley in my freshman year in 1945 by the score of 69-0. It was so bad that even I got in the game. But it motivated us and in my senior year we finally beat them for the first time in eight years by a score of 13-7. I had the good fortune to score the winning touchdown.

    And in later years, in the 1970s, I had the privilege of presenting the Rosburg Award to the best student-athlete at MMC that year. He had starred on an Eagle team that lost to Kingsley by an even larger margin. It didn’t seem to have any adverse effect on him or his teammates. (Does anyone remember the year and score of that debacle?)

    I think kids need to learn that life can be unpleasant. Blowouts happen. Sometimes you get walloped. Crushed. Banged. Blistered. Whomped.

    But you learn to bounce back. If you can learn to handle a humiliating defeat, you can learn to handle just about anything.

    And there is another lesson in it all. Revenge—when it comes—is sweet.

    Bob Reed

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  2. AnonymousJuly 04, 2006

    I checked out my 69 Eaglet and the score of that game was 92-0 in K-P's favor. One of my friends had commented on that page that we didn't have the best season, but we still loved our Eagles. Marcia Steffen Pavey

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  3. AnonymousJuly 04, 2006

    Sorry to inform friends of Lorraine Schroeder Schouten that her beloved husband, Wally, passed away June 30 from emphysema. His memorial service will be held in their Lutheran church in Cupertino on July 7. Lorraine's address is:

    371 Lowell Drive, Santa Clara, Ca 95051

    Lorraine was graduated with the class of 1946 from MHS.

    Bonnie Morgenthaler

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  4. Bob: As you undoubtedly know, the same thing is happening in a considerable fashion in academe. (Many teachers, educators and some parents on this blog will undoubtedly take issue.)

    Schools in our area now print pictures of the "Top 3%" of the high school senior classes in various local high schools. In fact, the group represents the top 20% or higher. They do that by starting with weighted grades. Kids can end up with a GPA of over 4.0 now. So, the schools have decided that anyone with a GPA in excess of that threshold is deemed worthy of being categorized a top 3% qualifier, whether they are, or not. (Makes for a nice note to Grandma and Grandpa, if you are so honored.)

    Roosevelt High School in Des Moines started the parade. Its classes run somewhat over 300 kids. They celeberate almost 60 (instead of 9 or 10) kids as being in the top 3%. If you don't know the class size, it's easy for educators and their publicists to dupe the public.

    My daughter's recent graduating class in high school - Valley - has over 500 kids in the class. Ten per cent of the class was honored as having a 4.0 avearage or above. Many see that as kids being smarter. I see it as massive grade inflation, followed up with weighted grades which have converted traditional honors into something other than what they used to mean.

    When was the last time you knew of "anyone" who graduated from high school, prior to 1970, who had a GPA of 4.0? There were undoubtedly a few, but it was rare. If you were good in math, you might not be as strong in the literary arts. If you were a good writer, you might get a B or lower in gym (P.E.). And so it went. I didn't know kids who graduated with a 4.0. Now, in some quarters, it's 10% of the graduating class.

    And no longer do we celebrate a valedictorian in our schools. It's considered unfair to the kids who got close, but didn't make it. So we honor the top 3% or 5% or some other group.

    Our school won't hand out relative class standings anymore - considered to be unreflective of the "true overall picture" of a student profile.

    Standardized tests are dismissed as being an unfair measure of academic proficiency.

    So what are we left with - honors, test results, awards, and standings that are meaningless. When kids send in resumes to our office and I look at them as prospective hires, I ignore (or give little credence) to all the claimed academic achievements. Since I don't know if 3% means 3% at their alma mater, if valedictorian means one person or thirty at their school, or if "graduated with honors" means the top half of the class where they matriculated, I look beyond that.

    The education establishment, out of an undue concern for a student's esteem, has tarnished the standards for all. It's very unfortunate.

    My mom was a teacher, I served on a school board, my two daughters want to be public school teachers -I care about public education, but many times the system seems adrift and those in it "killing it with kindness". As you note, people grow from adversity. We learn, hopefully, from our mistakes. And it doesn't encourage maturity and accountability when the adults try to insulate kids from life's real exeriences. But, nonetheless, it continues.

    So everybody gets a trophy, all are bright, motivated and capable and as Garrison Keillor says, in our part of the world, "All our kids are above average".

    As one of my partners - now 80 years old - is fond of saying, "We live in the era of the great unspoken." Translation - most of us know better, but we dare not speak the truth.

    Fred

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  5. AnonymousJuly 06, 2006

    Bob and Fred:

    Better yet did anyone see where some public school banned TAG from being part of the recess routine.

    Poor little Johnny or Bertha might get hurt playing TAG. Now can someone please explain to me how the public school system gets away with this JUNK and r there not enough people left in our country with a backbone to stand up to these idiots running the public schools?

    On a brighter note I am currently spending time in Southern- California and just found out that Corona, CA was founded by 4 Iowans. Does anyone know if any former Marcusites played a role in building Corona? Also, it just amazes me how many Iowans left our state and helped make California great. The orange orchards around Corona and Riverside are amazing and needless to say the Dutchmen from the Pella and Sioux County area have made Ontario,CA a gorgeous community.

    Jack Clarkson, going to see one of the classic baseball rivalries in all of baseball tomorrow night.......Dodgers and the Giants in OLD DODGER STADIUM. Will be thinking of you as we watch the game. Needless to say I will be pulling for the GIANTS!!!!

    Philip Dorr

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  6. AnonymousJuly 06, 2006

    Hard to believe today but I understood that Los Angeles was known as "Des Moines-by-the-Sea" prior to WWII. Here is a link to an interesting description of early Iowa migration to California.

    http://alumnus.caltech.edu/
    ~rbell/IowansToCalifornia.html

    Kyle Drefke

    P.S. Fred, high schools aren't the only ones with grade inflation. Last year Duke Law School raised its class median from 3.1 to 3.3 because it thought its students were at a competitive disadvantage with its main rival, the University of Virginia Law School, which rarely gives a B-.

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  7. AnonymousJuly 07, 2006

    I am belatedly commenting on some of the music views expressed in the past couple months. The Flippers had numerous musicians through the years. Randy Hoyt, originally from Marcus, and
    later Remsen performed in this group for several years. Connie Mead also played trumpet in the group at one time. I have seen three reunion shows done by the band in the past 10 years. They remain very classy, excellent musicians. For anyone interested--Spectacle, a large showband formed in Remsen in the late 60s will perform this saturday night at the avalon ballroom in remsen. i will be playing sax and keyboards. It is a great show and features music from groups such as tower of power, the mob, the flippers, and chicago. AS to Bob's comments about the pimp song--i frankly could not believe what i was hearing. I know there is great new music being performed and written but it didn't make it to the academy awards show. In some respects the music industry has been kidnapped by tasteless dummies. However....there are many wonderful young musicians doing great things and the listener is ultimately responsible for finding good music to enjoy. For big band fans I highly recommend Gordon Goodwins Big Phat Band. This guy writes movie scores(the Incredibles being one). The charts remind me of Henry Mancinis writing. Sorry for the ramble--will probably see many returning marcusites at the fair. Steve Smith.

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  8. AnonymousJuly 08, 2006

    Hello,

    I had been living in Marcus for 10 months during the years 1997-1998.
    I come from Germany and it was a great time while living in the United States. Right now, over here in Europe especially in Germany there is a huge party going on, because of the Soccer World Cup, although it was terrible not to win the semi-final against Italy on Tuesday.
    How is everything in Marcus going? I hope great. I stayed at the Leavitt Family. If someone knows them, please tell them a nice and warm "hello" from me.

    Many greetings from Germany!
    Björn Koch

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  9. AnonymousJuly 08, 2006

    Re: Fred D.'s comments on grade inflation -


    Consider comments by -
    John Taylor Gatto
    NYC Teacher of the Year - Three Times, New York State Teacher of the Year - 1991

    "Our form of schooling has turned us into dependent, emotionally needy, excessively childish people who wait for a teacher to tell them what to do. Our national dilemma is that too many of us are now homeless and mindless in the deepest sense—at the mercy of strangers.The beginning of answers will come only when people force government to return educational choice to everyone. But choice is meaningless without an absolute right to have progress monitored locally, too, not by an agency of the central government. Solzhenitsyn was right. The American founding documents didn’t mention school because the authors foresaw the path school would inevitably set us upon, and rejected it....School can never deal with really important things. Only education can teach us that quests don’t always work, that even worthy lives most often end in tragedy, that money can’t prevent this; that failure is a regular part of the human condition; that you will never understand evil; that serious pursuits are almost always lonely; that you can’t negotiate love; that money can’t buy much that really matters; that happiness is free. A twenty-five-year-old school dropout walked the length of the planet without help, a seventeen-year-old school dropout worked a twenty-six-foot sailboat all by herself around the girdle of the globe. What else does it take to realize the horrifying limitations we have inflicted on our children? School is a liar’s world. Let us be done with it."

    Now back to pleasant things about Marcus.

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  10. A thought about about the school that put an end to playing tag. Just wondering if the impetus to stop the game came from the complaints of a parent. No leadership. No gumption to say No when one whining voice proclaims doom. And I don't think it's just public schools ...

    Agree that grade inflation is circling out of control ... everywhere. Especially now that state testing has become the mantra almost everywhere. And the mandate requires that there be better scores every year or state aid will be cut. Now how does that work when the population of students taking the test every year changes?

    The comments from the teacher of the year were so very honest ...
    I still say we're living in Orwell's 1984 ... just a lot cleaner and more colorful than he portrayed it ... and our chocolate is better ... I think ... or am I just as brainwashed as the proles?

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  11. AnonymousJuly 09, 2006

    An update on the All Holy Name School Reunion Friday and Saturday August 11 & 12th. It is going very well. As of Saturday 7/8/06 we have 265 reservations and about 20 that told me they are going to be there but not yet sent in their reservation. So if you read this please let us know as we need the count on the dinner for Saturday night. All of us on the committe are very excited about the response we have received. So if anyone is thinking about joining us for the Reunion please get in contact with me at:

    Phone: 712-376-2511
    Email: jfclark@midlands.net

    Now for another important issue.

    Phil, I hope you enjoyed the game at Dodger Stadium. The Giants won two out of three so far and they play again today. You certainly would not want the Giants to take three out of four sitting in Dodger Stadium on comp tickets would you???? Tommy would not like that......

    Jack Clarkson
    Dodger Fan

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  12. AnonymousJuly 10, 2006

    The 2006 Marcus Fair Schedule is now available online at:

    http://www.marcusiowa.com/fair_schedule.htm

    Kara Spieler

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  13. MARCUS HISTORICAL SOCIETY

    The organization of the Marcus Historical Society is underway! A committee, chaired by June Dias, has created organization papers and bylaws to establish the Society. The bylaws have been submitted to the State Historical Society for comment and will be filed with the state to create the Marcus Historical Society as a nonprofit, tax exempt organization.
    The Society plans to have a booth at the Marcus Fair to explain and promote the organization and will mount a membership campaign this fall. All residents and expatriates will be encouraged to join the organization and vote for officers to lead the Society.
    An offer to purchase the old Danish Lutheran Church to be used as a center and museum for the Society was not accepted by the Faith Lutheran Church. The Society is seeking another building to serve in this capacity.

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  14. AnonymousJuly 16, 2006

    On a sad note.....Madge Drefke, 95, passed away Saturday July 15th at the Heartland Care Center. Condolences go out to her family. Madge was a wonderful lady and an inspiration to me. She will be missed!
    Janette Woodall

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  15. AnonymousJuly 19, 2006

    Hey Karen (Fisher) Northrup / if you read these comments ... my sister gave me your phone number and said she talked to you ... I've promptly (or not so promptly!) LOST the number ...I'm in the process of moving, so maybe I'll find the number ... OR leave a comment here and we'll get in touch! ... Dianne (Wallin) Jones

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  16. AnonymousJuly 19, 2006

    Dianne--in case Karen Northrop doesn't see your message, I have her address: 367 Christopher Drive, San Francisco CA,94131-1015.
    e-mail: cmnorthrop@msn.com. I don't have her phone #. Bettye Pallesen, Sky valley, Ca

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  17. AnonymousJuly 20, 2006

    Bettye - THANK YOU! I'll send the email ... usually works out as the best communication. / Dianne

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  18. AnonymousJuly 21, 2006

    I've recently found the Marcus website, and started reading the blogs. Wow, am I having a good time remembering who all of you people are! (And feeling mighty old when I don't remember!)

    I am very proud to say that I grew up in Marcus (graduated Class of '74). Even though I moved away in '81, I still go back from time to time and I think very fondly of the time I lived there. There are a lot of people in that town that are very special to me, and I send them all my love. If anyone wants to get in touch with me, or wants to know specific information about any of my family members, you can feel free to contact me any time (information below).

    Kurt, I found your blog from February, where you listed the address for the website on my brother-in-law, Bill Kirchoff. He married my oldest sister, Judy. To clear things up for some people from Marcus who weren't aware of it, my mother (Jan) was married first to Thayer Tarvin and had four children - Gail, Judy, Terry and Vicki. They divorced and she met and married my father, Merle Mead. They had two more children - Connie and me. So, while living as a family, all of the kids went by the Mead family name, but Dad never officially adopted the three older kids (Gail had died when he was three months old). So in the Kirchoff website, when it says that Bill married Judy Tarvin, that is correct; that was Judy's actual maiden name, but she is, in fact, my half-sister, so she was a "Mead" girl when she was living in Marcus.

    Anyway, Marcus is a special place and I'm very proud of that town.

    My contact information is:

    Beverly E. Mead
    766 Bay Ridge Drive
    Iowa City, IA 52246-6102
    beverly-mead@uiowa.edu
    (319) 356-4373 Work
    (319) 400-4703 Cell (except during working hours)

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  19. AnonymousJuly 21, 2006

    Bev:

    Welcome to the BLOG. It is neat to have a new person on the site.
    A few years ago you-if memory serves me correctly-were gathering email addresses, names, and other contact information of people at the Marcus Fair. Would you be kind enuf to start throwing some names and email addresses on the board and/or ship the information to Thelma Gravenish at the Marcus News and ask her to have it published so we can ALL have access to the information you obtained as I recall it was being obtained for mass distribution and not any particular proprietary reason!!!!
    Will you be home for the FAIR in a few weeks and if so look forward to seeing you there?
    Phil Dorr

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  20. AnonymousJuly 23, 2006

    RAGBRAI started today, leaving from Sergeant Bluff and will end Saturday in Muscatine. We had a son that rode on the second RAGBRAI and a daughter that rode on the eighth. They enjoyed it immensely. Several from Marcus ride on it each year. It has passed through Marcus two or three times. Any RAGBRAI stories that anyone can tell us?

    Pat Ducommun

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  21. AnonymousJuly 24, 2006

    Pat:

    I have stated on here before but for the record I rode on the very first one for the first day "my birthday present" from Sioux City to Storm Lake. I was never so glad to see my brothers Karl and Kurt in Storm Lake. The hills of Sioux City and the Little Sioux River Valley from what seemed like Kingsley to dang near Storm Lake almost killed me on my 2-speed 5000 lb Schwinn bike. There weren't many of us riders that first year or two which you know and the best thing about back then was everybody provided us free baked goods and plenty of watermelon!!!!!

    Wonder how crazy Thursday will be with Lance Armstrong riding in the "PARADE ACROSS IOWA?"

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  22. AnonymousJuly 24, 2006

    Would sure like some information on the Ray Wankum benefit.I receive the Marcus News and haven't seen any mention of Ray until I received my Marcus News today..July 24th .Ray was a good friend growing up in Marcus, in fact I would never have gotten out of town to do anything if Ray and Randy Tentiger hadn't given me a ride..Hope everything is ok. Thanks for this blog site. I love reading about everybody..It's hot out here in az. but I hear that it's hot in Iowa too..Linda Rae

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  23. Phil:

    I'll dig out the information I got last time I was in Marcus and will post it soon.

    I don't think we'll be able to make it to the Fair this year. I'm directing a show for the Washington Community Theatre that opens in October, so we'll be deep in preparation for that.

    'Course, if anyone wants to come down here to see it, we have room for a few guests, and my sister, Vicki, lives in Kalona, so you could see her, too.

    By the way, Kurt - what was it that started the blog on Bill? Just curious.

    I also saw something on the Flippers. Could I get the information that whoever found so I could get a copy of their 45, "Harlem Shuffle", and any others I can get my hands on? Connie said that, after selling all of their records at dances over the years, he never kept any of his own. So I'm trying to locate them to send to him (he's living in Canada now) when I can.

    When did Dick Nielsen die? I hadn't heard that, and I'm very sorry. How are Chuck and the girls doing?

    Vicki Dunn (Webber now) and Tyler Artz (both Class of '73) are both working at University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics here in Iowa City. Tyler is even in my department. Anybody else in this neck of the woods? I thought it might be fun to have a Marcus Picnic at this end of the state sometime, so would be good to k now who all is down around Iowa City.

    Later, gang!


    Beverly

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  24. Bev: I'm Philip's brother, Fred Dorr. It was my wife who found the Flipper CD. I'll get the address from her and forward it. In fact, I'll post it on the Blog in case there are other "Flipper Fans" out there who also want to send in an order. Regards, Fred

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  25. To order the CD "The Fabulous Flippers - Then and Now" send $25 plus $4 for shipping and handling to:

    Flipper Productions
    223 West 6th
    Larned, Kansas 67550

    Check or money order should be payable to "Flipper Productions".

    The CD includes "Harlem Shuffle".

    Good luck. Fred

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  26. Fred:

    Thanks so much for the information on how to get the Flippers' CD! I'll be getting two of them; one for Connie and one for me! ;>

    Remembrances: I remember being in a car accident outside of Remsen in the winter time, icy roads, and I spun out and landed in the ditch. Your sister-in-law, Anne, was behind me and stopped to help. She got in the car with me, after all was said and done, and had me drive home and took me up to the door. If she hadn't been there and made me drive home, I might have been scared off driving for a very long time. Please let Ann know I've never forgotten that, and I love her dearly and send her my best.

    Jackson - Remember the white German shepherd we had? Most of the town seemed to be afraid of our dog. Can't understand why; just because he'd have killed anybody who hurt any of "his" family! When Connie had rheumatic fever and Doc Joynt would have to come out to check on him, he'd call first. Remember his big, booming voice? He wouldn't say, "Hi", first or anything. He'd just say, "Mead? I'm comin' out there. Get that God-damned dog tied up!" Then he'd hang up.

    Speaking of Connie and his rheumatic fever - He was confined to his bed for six or eight weeks, but his fourth-grade teacher, Martha Truelson, didn't let that keep him from staying up with the class. Every day after school, she'd come to our house and tutor Connie so that, when he got back to school, he was right on track with where he needed to be. Talk about dedication!

    Martha has to be one of my favorite memories of school. I was lucky enough to have her when I was in fourth grade, too. That was the year Bud Van Velzen's meat locker blew up. When Julie (who was in our class) came back to school after everything was settled back down, Miss Truelson (Mrs. Hueser now) had all of the kids sit on the floor inside the door and wait till she came in, and then roll candy and fruit to her, to welcome her back. What a neat idea!

    I have lots of other great memories, but I'll share them on another blog.

    Later, Marcus!


    Beverly

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  27. AnonymousJuly 27, 2006

    I finally got to meet Bob Reed and Baritone Bob!!! Thanks for stopping in at the Drugstore while you were in Marcus this week. It was great getting to meet both of you and your family.
    Gina Rassel

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  28. AnonymousJuly 28, 2006

    Hello! My name is Vangie Cowen, we purchased Paula Cronin's home on Elm Street in May. I wanted to let everyone know how much we like Marcus. I'm a home based Travel Agent with a full service agency. I have had 10 years experience in the travel world and I have a degree in travel and tourism. I'm open for business! You can call me at 712-376-2272 or email me at vangietravel@yahoo.com. I will answer your question promply. You will soon start seeing my cards around town. Let me help you plan your next vacation or business trip!
    I'd love to hear from all of you!

    Vangie

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